Have you ever heard of the concept of the “alpha”? In studies of social animals, the alpha is considered to be the dominant animal of the group. In most animal groups, there will be an alpha male and an alpha female; together, they form the dominant pair. There’s also been a push to apply the concept to people. Do you wonder why it’s so easy for some men to walk into a room and command it? Would you like to have that level of confidence that allows you to walk up to any woman with real ease and sophistication without any complications whatsoever? In the same way people have different learning styles, social behaviors, or personality traits, not all men will have the same level of masculinity. Being alpha starts with believing in yourself and knowing your purpose in life. This trait is vitally important because it will affect every decision you make in your life. To gain more confidence, start setting goals in your life. Once you knock this goal out of the park, you can then work on others. Alpha males are by nature leaders of others. It simply isn’t good enough to be great yourself, you must encourage others to reach their full potential as well. Developing leadership skills is a sure-fire way to become more Alpha. On top of that, a true alpha is always seeking to learn and better themselves—you can't do that if you already think you're better at everything. No matter how much you know, there's always room to learn something. If you're working to become an alpha, this is one area where you can "fake it till you make it."
In fact, you might have friends who you consider to be better dating experts than you. And when you see them fail miserably with women, you become depressed yourself and don’t try to take action. But trust me here- take action, and you will get much more! It is also possible to turn the tables around- instead of you going after girls, you can have women chasing you! Always bear in mind that women find one characteristic truly irresistible – confidence. Alpha males are incredibly alluring to women. In society the alpha male is the man or woman who others follow. The Alpha male understands superior to other men on what women want. Alpha male knows the art of commanding a woman’s attention. Becoming an alpha male is one of the techniques for succeeding with women. This is what How To Become An Alpha Male teaches. This guide opens room for a new type of male personality that is the most desired and searched from women- the alpha male. Become the alpha male, says John, and you will ALWAYS BE the alpha male, no matter how things turn out in any one relationship. You will then always be able to simply BE YOURSELF, and "get non-stop streams of women" without any difficulty whatsoever.
Alexander’s approach is to first improve your inner game so that you’re automatically attracting women into your life. So I’d say it’s an inner game product first, but there’s a significant portion of the book also devoted to outer game. It’s this equal mix of strategies combined with his motivating teaching style that makes the ideas “stick.” It’s one of those books that will literally hardwire your mindset to a more alpha-way of thinking. However, this is easier said than done. You need to put patience, work, and focus if you want to succeed and see lasting results. And this system will give you the necessary guidance to turn your whole life around, and, as a result, become a women-magnet. Probably the most important thing I learned from this guide was how to project your ideal self. Now there are lots of ways of doing this such as adopting the right mindset, positive affirmations, nonverbal cues such as having a relaxed and spread out posture, leaning forward, making your voice sound pleasant and expressive. Some things will take practice, but a lot of changes you can make straight away. Obviously, you can’t completely transform yourself overnight. That said, you will feel different immediately after reading it, so the changes can happen very quickly.